maymay:

There’s a worthwhile conversation happening within the confines of FetLife about racism in the BDSM Scene. (And, for folks without a FetLife account, here’s an archived version.) _Spiral_ is making some of the most lucid, hard-hitting points I’ve read about this in a while:

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indigodel:

when older men are like “yeah baby, I love teaching new girls about submission” and they talk about “true subs” and “true doms” and try to corner you into a full-time power-exchange dynamic off the bat?

run. I am not even kidding. don’t do it, those men are dangerous.

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maymay:

This comment was posted as a response to my Atlanta Poly Weekend 2012 Opening Keynote, “From Triads to Tradic Relationships: Polyamory’s superpower is not what you think,” and it’s possibly one of my favorite comments ever:

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